Words are incredibly powerful. Voltaire famously said that with ten minutes to talk away his ugly face, he could bed the Queen of France. Poetry, music, literature, even pop culture is filled with the power of words. Words can move emotions to great heights. Words can inspire people to great actions.
Words Have Limits
Words, however, do have limits. They can be magic. It’s not a coincidence that we use the same word (spell) to describe the proper order of letters to describe a magic combination of words (spell).
Persuasive Words Lead To Short Term Effects
You can persuade somebody to buy something with words. Do this and you’ll make a fortune. You can learn to use your words seductively and make nearly anybody fall in love with you.
But each time you need to use those words. Every sale will require the same delicate use of words to create the buying desire. And with each customer having their own unique set of criteria, you won’t be able to use any memorized patterns.
Long Term Seduction
Seductive and romantic words are easy to use when you are feeling them. But as you grow comfortable with each other, and your new relationship has lost that new feeling, it’s much harder to use those same words to create those same feelings. Once the law of diminishing returns rears its ugly head, it’s time to start packing.
This guide will teach you how to train people. This is different than persuasion and influence. When you persuade people, you convince them to do a particular act. When you train people, you train them to carry out a particular behavior. Not just once, but forever.
You’ll learn a simple technique that will teach you how to train others in a way they won’t know what’s happening. You’ll know what’s going on, but for them, it will be outside of their conscious awareness. They’ll just slowly shift into a new behavior.
Physical And Emotional Behaviors
You can train your spouse to do the dishes, or you can train people you’ve just met to feel excited whenever they think of you. You can train your friends to show up on time, or you can partner to be more sexually outgoing.
Long Term Training
You can slowly shift the behavior of anybody you like. This will require a a certain kind of interaction. You’ll need to have access to them over the course of their training. Very few words will be required.
Short Term Training
You’ll learn techniques to train people very quickly. Within a five or ten minute conversation. This won’t require any more language skills than you already have. Just a conscious awareness of all of us are doing all the time anyway.
Your environment has been training you your entire life. Some of it in good ways, some of it in bad ways. Once you understand how this happens, you can choose who and what has an influence on your thinking and your behavior.
Be An Engineer Of The Mind
This guide will give you a powerful intellectual understanding of why humans do things. Why some habits are hard to break, and some aren’t. Why we get sucked into bad behaviors, and how to avoid them.
Train Yourself - Train Others
Use this guide to train yourself, train others, and take full control of your life. Family members, bosses, spouses, friends, lovers, clients, salespeople, all are fair game once you see how easy and painless it is. Both for you and for them.
If You Can Talk To Them- You Can Train Them
There are plenty of beginners exercises where you can practice on waiters, waitresses and bartenders. Or complete strangers if you feel like it. You’ll learn a very powerful yet deceptively simple mental exercise that will make asking strangers for the time a completely new experience.